Being present is increasingly becoming the thing I value most in people in the lens through which I assess my relationships. Being present seems to be the hardest thing for people to do these days. To be present is the greatest gift you can give someone. It is, in a sense, giving someone your time, and saying that you value your time together. Conversely, I have a difficult time respecting those who seem unable to be present.

I’ve oddly found myself enjoying old activities with this lens as well. For example, I love going to movies now. I don’t do it often, but when I do I look forward to it because my phone is off, and I’m entirely focused on the story infront of me, as are the people I am with. Interestingly, having a beer with friends seems to do the same thing. I’m not sure if it’s alcohol, or just the nature of doing a group activity, but because your mind is altered somewhat, you’re very conscious of your present state, and become present in the social function you’re a part of.